Responding Properly to Backbiting

In October of 2013, twelve-year-old Rebecca of Lakeland, Florida, took her life after being bullied by several other teens. A series of events, including malicious cyber messages to and about Rebecca drove her to a tragic end. Even after her death, one of the girls callously admitted she had bullied Rebecca, bragged about it and stated, in crass terms, that she couldn’t care less about what happened.

While the above might sound shocking, it has become commonplace in our society. In fact, in different degrees, it is common even in Christian circles. Believers of all ages allow themselves to participate in verbal bullying and many of us enable perpetrators by listening to things that should never be spoken. The Bible gives us an answer about how every godly Christian should respond to vicious words spoken against someone else.

God tells us in Proverbs 25:23: “The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.” The word backbiting means to attack the character or reputation of a person who is not present or, to speak slanderously of one who is absent. Oftentimes one who is backbiting is given an ear with the rationalization that the perpetrator is a friend, needs a sounding board because they are hurting, or needs counsel. But such concepts are contrary to the instruction of God’s Word. Malicious talk about someone who is not present doesn’t seek to solve the problem. It is an exercise to sin. Our response should be to let the guilty party know with certainty that it is wrong, and we want no part of such conduct. In II Corinthians 12:20-21, the Apostle Paul warned he would give an even stronger response to those who backbite or slander another. He would publicly “bewail many.” What do you think? Would confronting the backbiter in God’s way deter such sinful actions and perhaps aid in the health of the local church?

If you have been guilty of backbiting another, this is your opportunity to glorify your Savior. We suggest you stop this action immediately and, whether past or present, apologize, without excuse, to the one you victimized. When you hear backbiting, choose to respond as instructed above. We can either be the problem or the solution. From this point on, which will you be?

To the Reader:

Some of our Two Minutes articles were written many years ago by Pastor C. R. Stam for publication in newspapers. When many of these articles were later compiled in book form, Pastor Stam wrote this word of explanation in the Preface:

"It should be borne in mind that the newspaper column, Two Minutes With the Bible, has now been published for many years, so that local, national and international events are discussed as if they occurred only recently. Rather than rewrite or date such articles, we have left them just as they were when first published. This, we felt, would add to the interest, especially since our readers understand that they first appeared as newspaper articles."

To this we would add that the same is true for the articles written by others that we continue to add, on a regular basis, to the Two Minutes library. We hope that you'll agree that while some of the references in these articles are dated, the spiritual truths taught therein are timeless.


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Is This a Contradiction?

“Matthew says the chief priests took the money Judas cast down in the temple and bought the ‘field of blood.’ Peter, in Acts, says that Judas bought the field with the ‘reward of iniquity.’ On the surface, this appears to be a contradiction.”

First and foremost, the Word of God never contradicts itself. When there is an apparent contradiction, the problem is not with the Scriptures, but with our understanding of them. Most times the conundrum is easily resolved, which is the case here. However, when we are confronted with no suitable explanation; we simply have to wait on further light before we attempt to interpret a passage.

When the chief priests and elders refused to receive the thirty pieces of silver, as noted, Judas cast them to the floor and went out and hanged himself. After his departure, these religious leaders counseled together as to what to do with the money. Since these ill-gotten funds were used to betray innocent blood, they determined that it would be unlawful to put it into the temple treasury. An honorable thing, indeed, for men who only a few hours earlier were guilty of conspiracy.

So these unscrupulous leaders took Judas’ thirty pieces of silver, “and bought with them the potter’s field, to bury strangers in” (Matt. 27:3-10). Since it was Judas’s money that was used to buy the field, he is credited with the purchase. Peter confirms this when he said, “Now this man [Judas] purchased a field with the reward of iniquity” (Acts 1:18).

To the Reader:

Some of our Two Minutes articles were written many years ago by Pastor C. R. Stam for publication in newspapers. When many of these articles were later compiled in book form, Pastor Stam wrote this word of explanation in the Preface:

"It should be borne in mind that the newspaper column, Two Minutes With the Bible, has now been published for many years, so that local, national and international events are discussed as if they occurred only recently. Rather than rewrite or date such articles, we have left them just as they were when first published. This, we felt, would add to the interest, especially since our readers understand that they first appeared as newspaper articles."

To this we would add that the same is true for the articles written by others that we continue to add, on a regular basis, to the Two Minutes library. We hope that you'll agree that while some of the references in these articles are dated, the spiritual truths taught therein are timeless.


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The Title of Paul – 1 Timothy 1:1-2

Summary:

The word “apostle” means sent one, and when the Lord “commanded” and “sent” the twelve forth (Mt.10:5), they were sent forth by the commandment of God (John 12:49). Since Paul knew not everyone accepted his apostleship, he asserted that he too was an apostle “by the commandment of God” (1:1). This made his apostleship of equal authority with that of the twelve.

But if God had already commanded and sent out 12 apostles, why send out another? It’s not like they were sent to different groups of people, they were all sent to “all nations” (Lu.24:47 cf. Rom.1:5). But the 12 didn’t reach all nations, because Israel, the first nation they were sent to (Lu.24:47) refused to believe, and they couldn’t go to the rest of the nations until the children of Israel were “filled” (Mark 7:27). So God sent another apostle to all nations.

But this means God had to introduce a new program as well as a new apostle. The old plan was to get Israel saved and let them reach all nations as God’s priests. The fact that all nations today have been reached with the gospel of God proves God started a new plan. That’s why Paul told the Corinthian Gentiles that their salvation proved his apostleship. Since they were saved and Israel wasn’t, it proved he was a new apostle with a new message.

When Paul says he was an apostle “by the commandment of God our Saviour,” this shows Paul was also given a new message. In time past, God was the Savior of the Jews only (Isa.49:26), and that didn’t change with the preaching of the 12 (Acts 5:30,31). It changed “in due time” with preaching that was committed to Paul (Tit.1:2,3), when “God our Saviour” said He would “have all men to be saved” (ITim.2:3-7).

Paul also claimed he was an apostle of the Lord Jesus (1:1) who sent him (Acts 26:17) for the same reason God sent him, to offer “forgiveness of sins” (v.18) to all nations.

When Paul says Christ is “our hope,” this is different than when we as Gentiles had “no hope” in time past (Eph.2:11,12).

In his first epistle in Scripture, Paul also introduced himself as a “servant” (Rom.1:1) to let us know the kind of apostle he’d be, one that wasn’t afraid to get involved in the work of the ministry. He also introduced himself as a servant to the Philippians (1:1), knowing that if they’d adopt a servant’s heart it would fix their pride issues, specially when he reminded them their Savior became a servant (2:5-7). He also introduced himself as a servant to Titus (1:1) for that strong leader needed to be reminded that a good leader must be a good servant.

This letter was written to Timothy (1:2), a more timid man than Titus (I Cor. 16:10 cf. IICor.7:14,15). Paul writes to him about his mother, his grandmother, and his tears (IITim. 1:4,5). But this mamma’s boy was respected in two churches (Acts 16:1-3). Born and raised in Lystra, where he saw Paul stoned, he still agreed to go with Paul when the apostle asked him to, even though it meant having to undergo a painful adult circumcision (v.3 cf. Gen.34:25).

All of this proves that God can use you, even if you’re timid. Timothy fit in at Philippi better than Titus (Phil.2:19) since the church started with women (Acts 16:11,12), and about the only members named are women (Phil.4:2), leading us to believe the church consisted mostly of women. Well, Timothy was raised by women!

When Paul calls him “mine own son in the faith” (1:2), that means Lois and Eunice might have raised him in the Jewish faith, but Paul led him to the Lord. If you are raising your kids in the faith, it might take someone else to reach them.

Paul offers grace and peace to the churches he wrote to, but “mercy” to the pastors (ITim.1:1; IITi.1:1; Tit.1:1). He may have been referring to the kind of mercy that enabled him to remain single (ICor.7:25), or the food and clothing kind (IITim.1:16) when churches didn’t supply their needs, or the kind of mercy in physical illness that servants of the Lord like Epaphroditus had (Phil.2:25-27).

Why Not Reverend?

“Why is it that you never refer to yourself as ‘Reverend’ (Rev.) or ‘The Reverend’? I must add that I totally agree with not using the title.”

In the Old Testament “reverend” is an adjective referring to the One who was to be revered. The Psalmist says, for example, “He sent redemption unto His people: He hath commanded His covenant forever: holy and reverend is His name” (Psa. 111:9). The term is clearly used here to describe the honor of His name. The name Jehovah was so high, so holy, so revered that the Hebrews changed the pronunciation of it fearing the curse of the law:

“And he that blasphemeth the name of the Lord [Jehovah], he shall surely be put to death, and all the congregation shall certainly stone him: as well the stranger” (Lev. 24:16).

The Scriptures are very clear that we are to hold those in high esteem who have rule over us in spiritual things (I Thes. 5:12,13; Heb. 13:17). While they are indeed worthy of our recognition, the fact is, the very best fall short of the calling. Furthermore, we never want to give the impression that “The Reverend” is in any sense the final authority. Instead, it should be every spiritual leader’s desire that believers study the Word of God, which is the final authority.

Since the designation of “reverend” is such a lofty description that only God is worthy of, we believe ministers of the gospel should avoid its use. We should, however, give our due respect to those who proclaim the riches of His grace among us. This is the Lord’s way of encouraging them in the faith.

To the Reader:

Some of our Two Minutes articles were written many years ago by Pastor C. R. Stam for publication in newspapers. When many of these articles were later compiled in book form, Pastor Stam wrote this word of explanation in the Preface:

"It should be borne in mind that the newspaper column, Two Minutes With the Bible, has now been published for many years, so that local, national and international events are discussed as if they occurred only recently. Rather than rewrite or date such articles, we have left them just as they were when first published. This, we felt, would add to the interest, especially since our readers understand that they first appeared as newspaper articles."

To this we would add that the same is true for the articles written by others that we continue to add, on a regular basis, to the Two Minutes library. We hope that you'll agree that while some of the references in these articles are dated, the spiritual truths taught therein are timeless.


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‘Faith of Christ’ and ‘Faith in Christ’

“I was wondering what the distinction is, if any, between the ‘faith of Christ’ and ‘faith in Christ’ found in Galatians 2:16? The modern translations seem to suggest that both phrases are one and the same.”

“Knowing that a man is not justified by the works of the law, but by the faith of Jesus Christ, even we have believed in Jesus Christ, that we might be justified by the faith of Christ, and not by the works of the law: for by the works of the law shall no flesh be justified” (Gal. 2:16).

We believe that the King James Version of the Scriptures best conveys the sense of the original language. The modern versions change the phrase “faith of Christ” to “faith in Christ” throughout, which overwhelms the passage with redundancy. Paul never intended the emphasis to be upon what man has achieved, but instead what the Savior has accomplished on his behalf. The apostle here is clearly contrasting these two phrases.

We are not justified by keeping the law, rather we are declared eternally righteous by the faith of Christ. It was Christ’s faithfulness that is the basis of our justification. He faithfully carried out the will of the Father to provide redemption through His finished work at Calvary (Heb. 10:5-10). While salvation is a free gift given to all who place their “faith in” what Christ has done, He being the object of our faith, it was at great cost. The payment to rescue us from the eternal consequences of sin is the precious blood of Christ. Only those, however, who place their faith in Him have the forgiveness of their sins (Eph. 1:7).

To the Reader:

Some of our Two Minutes articles were written many years ago by Pastor C. R. Stam for publication in newspapers. When many of these articles were later compiled in book form, Pastor Stam wrote this word of explanation in the Preface:

"It should be borne in mind that the newspaper column, Two Minutes With the Bible, has now been published for many years, so that local, national and international events are discussed as if they occurred only recently. Rather than rewrite or date such articles, we have left them just as they were when first published. This, we felt, would add to the interest, especially since our readers understand that they first appeared as newspaper articles."

To this we would add that the same is true for the articles written by others that we continue to add, on a regular basis, to the Two Minutes library. We hope that you'll agree that while some of the references in these articles are dated, the spiritual truths taught therein are timeless.


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Berean Searchlight – December 2016


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